Lol yeah I'm thinking that now with everyone's insight. Thank you!
If you don't mind me asking, what is your age range? My husband is 40. Idk when he's planning to circle back later 😂🤣

@rese I'm 25 & my husband is 29, we orginally were going to try again when I turned 30 but I rather have them now & get it over with lol plus they all get to grow up together you know?! I know a few older women & men who had more children later lol. Who knows when your son gets older, he might look at him like damn one more won't hurt lol.

@spicydisaster, yeah I'm 27. But he's already stated dang I'm going to be 50 when my son is 10. He's not really at the age to circle back at 60/70 wanting a kid 😂😂😂. That's why I originally said if we did we'd have to have another NOW. Once my son is potty trained and all. That's it for me. A strong no lol
He doesn't want any right now and said well then we're done

I've had the nexplanon and I had to get it removed because my body didn't tolerate it well. I refuse to get an iud. Too many bad stories and my nexplanon moved so I'm scared that will happen

I honestly was okay with just my daughter. I'm happy we had my son though! I think I'm okay either way... I don't want another but if he does i wouldn't be opposed to it.. If that makes sense 🤔

I never set out with a number in mind of how many kids I would want , I do have a daughter and son and that's all I could ever ask for! My daughter to have a sibling and to have a brother as I didn't have one.

I will. He's not being too open about his feelings. Just saying he's done. To be fair, he does have work stress going on right now.

@rese, yeah, I would just tell him since it’s coming up quick you want to make sure you’re doing the right thing and that you’re both 100 percent sure. I kind of want to have one but my husband gives me mixed emotions on it also. So I am gonna have to have the same talk with him. Lol

@michellemybell09, I'll try and ask him like every night until Thursday 😂🤣

@rese, lmao! Better safe then sorry 😅

I'll try to Crack him lol he just keeps saying that he's done

@rese, I know me and my husband discussed it some and at first he was ok then he wanted more, I didn’t. I had it done when my last was born and he was upset for awhile that I’d had it done anyways. Now we are both ok with what was done but I do feel bad I didn’t get into his feelings more

@supermomof4, yeah and see I'm trying to keep his feelings top of mind because I know that our son is his first and I've given birth twice lol he literally waited to get remarried to have children, so idk. If we had a daughter I know he'd be ready to have another now😂

I've tried to talk to him but it seems like that’s all he keeps saying. I think he’s against the health stuff like pre e and an emergency csection. To go through that again more so. Our baby is only 4 months now so maybe he may change his mind later. 🤔

It's hard because I'm done. But I'd have another if he REALLY wants another. I don't want it to be an issue in our marriage later on or something.