I hope I never have to push out a baby naturally with no medicine again that was the worst pain of my damn life ..on a good note he was only 6lbs 13oz i probably would of died if he was any bigger lol
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
It happened....? 2.5 years and today was the day he heard me fart. I thought I could crop dust him, but it came out full force. He looked at me and busted out laughing. ?
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Jordynn 🥀·
excatly what i said once i pushed my son out , 🤣🤣 he was an ounce bigger than your son though 🤣
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@flamingfiremom i just kept looking at my husband with a blnk face , he kept asking me if i was okay . it just burned horribly .
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@jaaybabbies, the burn and I can feel the tearing all over the place so it burned 10x more
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@flamingfiremom, i didn’t tear to much i had 2 stitches .. but the burning is what threw me for the loop . i asked ant to go gst me a ice pack for after . i made them give me a shower 20 minutes after i had my son the burning had to go .
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With my first son the epidural didn't work and I felt everything. My son also ripped me and I needed stiches. You are a pro mama.
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Oh gosh it’s the worst
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@flamingfiremom I was telling the lady I feel my legs and I feel these contractions strong. I was freaking out and it hurt so bad I didn't wanna push
M. P. ·
I did that with my daughter. I had an epidural placed but it did NOTHING because I progressed so fast I had her an hour after it was placed. She was 7lbs 14oz
Kelly 🌻·
Omg i just had my son all natural 9 lb 4 oz surprisingly no stitches
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Wow lucky you my vag is on fire wen I have to pee or do anything I literally got like 10 stitches all over
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@flamingfiremom, i got a couple with my oldest and i remember than burning allllll too well 🥴
Lucky Mommy ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Mine was close I had epidural at the end but all basically natural
Lucky Mommy ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
My son broke a nerves in my coming out so when i have sex damn it hurts and they said it will heal over till bo stitches with both kids but contractions hurt like hell
Jessica💕·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I did it all natrual no meds with my other 4 and plan to do it with this one too if they let me idk cause im getting fixed after this baby<3
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I’m rethinking having more kids since this was all the opposite of how I expected it to go .. ive nvr experienced pain any worse then this ... I didn’t think I was gunna go from 4cm-10cm in less than 30 minutes cuz with my daughter it took a few hours
Jessica💕·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Ya it goes a bit faster with the more ya have or at least sometimes cause with my second it was 21hours the rest 5hours lol