About to go get a PFA on the kids dad since he tried to kidnap them yesterday and then took my carseats... 🙃 two can play this game 😉
Yes, I would definitely get some sort of custody in place and get the PFA if you feel You and the kids are in danger.
That's not kidnapping, they're his kids and you don't have a custody order.
The kicking in the ac unit and trying to kick in the door is where you go with this. It's probably time to establish custody. Sorry you have to deal with this asshat.
Sorry I missed the part of him pushing in the ac unit and kicking the door in. Use that and let them know you’re in fear of his irrational behaviors.
Just to let you know unless a custody order outlines custody and visitation what he did isn’t technically kidnapping. When you go to get your protective order, they will ask you if you’re in fear or believe you and the kids are in danger. I would make that my case, because if you try to use kidnapping when right now there’s isn’t a custody order to define that, it may be declined.
@mommy_of_monsters, I would make it short and simple. Do you have any messages with him threatening you? Anything that recently happened where you were in fear for you and the kids? Generally they will issues a temp order and for an extended order you usually see the judge at a later date.
@dontblockmesis-imjustspeakingfacts yeah I have a lot of proof and he even messaged my bestfriend and shes been here when he threw me onto the floor and punched me a few months ago
I’d pack my shit and go to a shelter 💯he wouldn’t find you there and they will help you with resources and it will also look good in court on you because it shows your the bigger person and protecting them is best