Idk had my first at 15 second at 18 and ya u get it lol depends on the kid and if there responsible I never had any help or family the dads didn’t want to be involved got emancipated got a house etc its not that hard just depends some girls have support And some don’t 🤷🏼♀️ but not impossible
If it happens I would do what I can to help my teenage but definitely don't want it to happen. I just think a teenager needs to be able to enjoy their teen years before having a baby. If it happened though I'd be there.
Pregnancy is hard and I wouldn't wish it on a teenager. I gave birth at 19 and I'm 21 next month pregnant with my 2nd. Some teens have their life more together than I do so I'm not one to judge.
I almost wish 😂 my kids would be grown now that would be kinda awsome. But my parents probably would of killed my ass 😬 I’m more stable now and I wouldn’t want my kids getting pregnant that young. But I would be at the beach right now sippin colada’s if I had kids earlier 🤣🤣🌚
I definitely discourage it but if my children come to me because they got someone pregnant then they're going to do what's right and be there for their child, They can finish school and I'll help babysit or whatever, As for my daughter I don't want her to make the same choices I did, I want better for her (& my boys) but I'll always be in her corner. I didn't have many options or really any help besides my husband, I wouldn't want my child going through something like that alone.
I got pregnant at 15 and has him a week after my 16th. I grew up fast. Got a job and graduated early with honors. I made it work but really hope my children don’t follow in my footsteps.
I hope with all that's inside of my heart and soul my children dont experience this, that they wait until their older on life and more prepared, but as said "shit happens" I'm not one to judge, I got pregnant with my first my junior year in HS!. it was not easy.
I mean, things happen. I’m not one to judge. I’d prefer my kids wait because I know teen pregnancy and teen parents can be difficult especially if they don’t have support or someone in their corner. But I hope if my kids are ever in that situation they are comfortable coming to me so they don’t have to experience it alone.
I was 16 yrs old “turned 17 3 month’s later & when I had my first son ,I grew up fast ,had a job,my own place &graduated high school early too .”my hs had a daycare as long as you were a student your child could go for free”My son was my motivation to keep going no matter what !many girls at my age were partying or if they had a baby their parents raised it “I raised my son ! Started my career at age 19 and at 40 yrs old now still in the same career &had waited 7yrs to have another child after my 1st with a better man of course !
@sherrynygirl
Yes!
I helped my sister. I was staying at home anyways.
So I watched her son for her while she was at work.
It gave me extra income. It was a win for us both
@sherrynygirl, my oldest son is 24 and has no kids went to college has a good job and is a great young respectful, responsible man “ and my 16 yr old is a good student too and focused on his Varsity football team ,they both tell me they couldn’t imagine being a teen parent that I’m stronger than a soldier and they are proud of me ! We are all very close