Lol, so my ex is threatening to file contempt tomorrow because he failed to follow our agreement and I didn't give in.…

Lol, so my ex is threatening to file contempt tomorrow because he failed to follow our agreement and I didn't give in.

Backstory:

August last year we had a civil agreement in front of the judge. He was to get our son every other weekend. Friday I was to take our son to our house, Sunday he was to bring him back (my bio dad typed this up so stupid). He has jumped in and out the whole past year. Either didn't take him, picked him up late, had me get him early, etc.

Well I got tired of plans changing last minute. So our order stated unless otherwise agreed upon by both parties AND our judge stated 'You can handle any reviews on your own outside of court.' In messages (which I have him directly stating he agreed) we agreed he would pick our son up Fridays at my home, and I'd pick him up Sunday at his. He also had to notify me 48hrs in advance what was happening or time was forfeited because he kept bailing or throwing stuff at me last minute (he would contact me 15mins before pick up stating he couldn't get him). Well he messaged me Thursday night after my son was in bed saying 6pm at the church (by his house). I told him 1. It's way under 48hrs in advance 2. He's to pick him up at my home. He also had a softball tournament all day Saturday, our son wouldn't have ate or had a nap. He also wouldn't have spent ANY time with his dad.

Here's reasons I know he can't get primary and may also lose unsupervised visits and overnights.

Our son is almost 4 and sleeps in his dads room, in his dads bed, with his dad. It's a twin size bed.

Last month within a 1 week span, he was admitted twice for suicidal thoughts and attempts.

I have witnesses who drove by his home one day and our 3 year old almost ran out onto the road. They live along a main stretch that has heavy traffic.

He has no job or vehicle and has already had utilities shut off like electric and half the time don't have enough food.

I also have screenshots where he rejected extra time, lied about why he couldn't get him, and all the times I had to pick my son up early.

He has also failed to show to child support hearings and lied to the child support office about income.