Let’s start with this......
How/what would you do if your boyfriend/husband was cheating on you?? Would you forgive him?? Take him back? Castrate him??
I don't tolerate disrespect, so he'd have to go. I've never stayed with a guy that has cheated or disrespected me in any manner. I believe that second chances could result in habits forming. I know I would never fully trust him again, and I don't need that headache. I like to be happy and to have a good time, so I make sure to eliminate things and people that prevents that. There's no amount of love that'll make me stay with my husband if he cheated. I believe in taking vows seriously, which is why I wrote my own. I didn't vow to do anything I knew I wouldn't do. Stuff like this is why I took my time and didn't marry the first man to propose marriage to me, and the first man to say he wanted kids with me, I didn't have kids with.
I went through this once with my ex husband and I seriously considered taking him back. I refuse to go through it again...it would be grounds for divorce immediately
Castrate him lol. I'd probably do something to him because id probably snap. For real I'd have to go. I wouldn't be able to forgive that. If I tried their would just be a lot of trust issues and it would drive us apart anyway. We would have to separate and no I wouldn't be going back.
@nerdymommyplus2 are there trust issues though? I can forgive, but the relationship would still be over. I'll forgive so I could move on, not to save the marriage.