I’ve came to the realization that if I were to die tomorrow, no one would care... Being a young mom of 3 is hard. I’ve lost all my friends except one, and even that one I feel is only around when it’s convenient for her. I love my kids and my fiancé, but sometimes it would be nice to have some friends to talk to and hangout with. Just someone to talk too. I just feel so lonely lately and I’m not sure why.
I was a young mom, I had my first @ 16 & 3 by 21. I haven’t had any friends since middle school really. & I don’t care about them neither. Being a mom is always going to be hard. But I’d rather my kids drama, then dealing with friends. There’s honestly no good in friendships anymore. I see all the people I knew back then & they are not doing good in their lives, they want to mess everyone else’s up. I’d rather not add extra negativity into my life. Just remember, kids are only little for a small period of time. My oldest is 12, I can’t believe in just 6 years he will be 18. The time doesn’t stop. You will be okay love, just take it easy, & learn a hobby to keep you busy.
I had 3 by 21 as well. I just turned 22 a few weeks ago. I don’t really care to be friends with people I went to high school with because none of them have kids, and can’t relate. They’re all still partying every weekend. It would just be nice to have some mom friends to talk to on hard days, and have play dates and such but all the moms around me are much older and act like I’m a baby so I feel like that makes them have no interest in being my friend. Time does fly though. My first just turned 3 and I remember her birth like it was yesterday. Thank you.
Sadly I feel the same way and I don’t think no one understands how deep the darkness can be. If you ever want a long distance friend I’m here 😊