@kedrababy, no I didn’t. We’re not actually engaged yet

@db413, r u going to?

@kedrababy, I’m not going to ask him. Just because 1. I want that excitement of him asking me. And 2. The way he talks about our future and how he refers to me as his future wife and not his gf reassures me that it will be coming in the future.

A man will know before 5 years if he wants to marry you! I do believe couples should live together before marriage. Living together can change things. But if he asked asked by 4 years it’s likely to me that he has no intentions. But all relationships are different!

Me and my bf have been together for almost 3 years. We have lived together for a little over 2. And even though we aren’t engaged. He refers to me as his future wife. Not his gf or fiancé. I was with my ex for 5 years. Every intention of getting married. But he never talked about our future or anything. As @massmomma16, said. He will know before 5 years if he really wants to spend his life with you. It’s all in how he shows you and tells you.

@mamasaurus_17, I guess you’re right 😞 ... that just scared me lol

@kedrababy , We lived together before getting married. It helped us to get to know each other better!

@mamasaurus_17, that’s what I thought! But I mean it kinda makes sense bc it’s like they’re getting a wife without all the troubles of “marriage”