He really should be ashamed because he will never find a woman again whose been only with him. So he’s stupid if he thinks someone else is gonna be better for him. I would definitely be having a real serious talk & if you think that trust can be repaired then it’s definitely worth trying to fix, but if you can’t trust again then it’s not gonna work out. But he has a lot of explaining to do as well as making up for what he’s done.

Talk to him mama..talk to him. I'm so sorry! I wish I could give you a big hug. No excuses for him, but compliments and conversations can be forgiven. Yes, you deserve more and this hurts,but it doesn't have to be the end. It could very well be the start of positive, healthy change your relationship needs to make it stronger, by reminding you both of your worth and what you need for a positive relationship. Open communication and a healthy relationship take both of you. I'm in no way saying this is ok, I'm just saying that talking about it with him is the first step and I pray whole heatedly you are both honest and open withbone another and can move forward together. You have a beautiful family. I pray you work this and regain trust and happiness for a bright future together!!!

Edit: please forgive the typos.