Wow. So last night my husband was talking on the phone with his sister from Mexico. She was saying that their uncles and aunts (they live in the same city as us) were talking about how we disappered that we used to visit everyone and that now we dont and blah blah blah. I have told my husband alot of times that I don't like to visit often. That's just how I am. But I have never told him he couldn't . If anything I encourage him to visit them. The reason I think twice before taking my kids out is the weather. And I would hope that his family understood that, but it looks like they don't. If my kids get sick , I'm the one that stays up all night trying to make them feel better, NOT THEM. I don't come from a family that visit each other every week. Now they can always visit us. I have told his family that they are welcome to visit whenever they please, and do they ? No. So why do we always have to be the ones contacting them and visiting them?. It's so frustrating. My husband tells me to stop worrying about it, to let them say what they want . This gives me anxiety and it's probably stupid. But i can't help it lol. Sorry I just had to vent.
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@bluepenguin yesss. I get along with my mother in law . I love her. Like if we dont visit them once a week we're bad family lmaooo. Like calm down we have our own lives. Geezz. Like I don't get whats so bad about visiting like once in a while. Buttt nooo it has to be when they want or they start talking crap about us.
@maya...... I Know, like...we all have kid, we are busy, we work. I bet if we ask them to come over it's like nooooo . Except his sister lol I'm putting my foot down with this baby. They all look at me like I'm a bad person though because if Noah spills like a droplet of water on his shirt I have to change his shirt. Or if it gets a little dirty. He's a kid! He'll be fine. Or if he falls and gets up and keeps playing. I'm a bad person . I very much know when he's hurt, or if it's a bad fall, or if he's dirty. Like you keep changing his clothes, you want to do my laundry? Pay my water/electric bills? Go ahead.
@bluepenguin yesssss! I get you 100% geeez ppl need to get us lol
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I feel this. But I also hate when people showed up unannounced and that's what his sister and her family does. Just shows up whenever. I'm like, y'know I ask if I can come over I don't just pop up. But no I'm the bad guy. I just hate social interaction haha.