Wow. So last night my husband was talking on the phone with his sister from Mexico. She was saying that their uncles and aunts (they live in the same city as us) were talking about how we disappered that we used to visit everyone and that now we dont and blah blah blah. I have told my husband alot of times that I don't like to visit often. That's just how I am. But I have never told him he couldn't . If anything I encourage him to visit them. The reason I think twice before taking my kids out is the weather. And I would hope that his family understood that, but it looks like they don't. If my kids get sick , I'm the one that stays up all night trying to make them feel better, NOT THEM. I don't come from a family that visit each other every week. Now they can always visit us. I have told his family that they are welcome to visit whenever they please, and do they ? No. So why do we always have to be the ones contacting them and visiting them?. It's so frustrating. My husband tells me to stop worrying about it, to let them say what they want . This gives me anxiety and it's probably stupid. But i can't help it lol. Sorry I just had to vent.