I told my husband if he keeps up the great work and stays clean we can start ttc again at his 3 month mark. I wanted to give him something to look foward to. And Lord knows we have been waiting for 6 years and 3 losses to welcome a little one into this world. When he got lost into the drugs we stopped trying bc I wouldn't allow that. It's been a long road! Now that he is getting better I think it's about that time. Prayers and good vibes our way please. Today is day 21.....that's 51 more days to go! We have been on our vitamins for about 2 months so we can make sure we're both healthy. I'm moving up to prenatal vitimans once I run out of my daily multivitamins. Just pray for us please. We have always wanted a family of our own and it will be very good for him! That's all he ever wanted and it breaks my heart. He was so good to my baby girl and he deserves a child of his own. When that day comes I'm going to cry like a baby with nothing but pure happiness.
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Mama, saw your post yesterday and today, happy you're making strides and that he is doing well in the short term. Praying he does well for the long term. Are you seeking help with his recovery? I pray you are. This is a steep mountain to climb alone and I really pray you get the long term results and outcome you are working towards. It is important to make goals and I am happy you and your husband want a baby but I must caution you to rethink your goal. 3 months is a very short period of time. No matter what you decide my heart and prayers are with you for his success.
I do uderstand the concerns and I have thought about it before I made my decision. I have my reasons to why we decided to wait 3 months. My husband does see a counselor and has agreed with our decision.
@mother.of.angels Prayers and well wishes sent. Hoping that your decision is a sound one and works out the way you plan. Merry Christmas.
Good for him! Getting clean has to be one of the hardest things someone can do. I have a couple family members who are addicts and refuse to quit for anything. He must have a lot of love for you! So happy for you guys!
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Not trying to be rude but counselors at the rehab facility my husband went to recommended waiting until addicts were sober for one year before making life changing decisions.