Honestly feel like ever since I became a mother I'm slowly losing who I use to be. Since I'm a stay at home mom, and we only have 1 car, I dont get to go out at all. I dont have...

Miranda

Honestly feel like ever since I became a mother I'm slowly losing who I use to be. Since I'm a stay at home mom, and we only have 1 car, I dont get to go out at all. I dont have any friends here since I moved 6 hours away from my hometown. I have no family here. With my husband working 12 hour days, sometimes I want an another adult to talk to. It makes me feel horrible. Like I'm failing, as a mother and wife. I also feel like im failing myself. I never have time to take care of me. My hair is always a mess, never have time to do my makeup, or even do a simple 30 minute workout. I'm sorry this is so long and all over the place. I have been holding all this in for the past 2 years.

28.10.2018

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Do you live close to family?
It sounds like you just need a friend and a night to regain your sense of self.
It’s time for some you time and it definitely doesn’t mean you’re failing as a mother or as a wife, not at all -it’s true that routine can often times close up our social interaction.

I’d get a baby sitter or family member and see about finding some basic social interaction anywhere even just at your local library alone ^ or with your kids at the park.

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Could you check your local library for kids activities? That way you could get out of the house and socialize with mommies while your kids socialize with other kids. Or just walking to the park and exploring. I’m sorry you feel this way

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dpinkpixie10

I know pretty much exactly how u feel

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