Is it unfair of me to "tell" my boyfriend he can't go to Halloween haunt tonight because we had a deal that he wouldn't go without me seeing that I've never been to Canada's wonderland and he's been a bunch of times?
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I’d never tell my husband he “can’t” do something. I’m not his boss he’s a grown man, and there’s often things he does that I don’t get to go to also. It’s part of life when you have kids🤷🏻♀️
@rainbowbaby1029 mmm its not his fault that he gets to go out and you can't, but at the same time...if he went... I'd still kinda be mad... 🤷🏽♀️
You can choose not to be and just let him have a good time.
@mhbb3 I know, I feel bad but at the same time I know I'll be mad when he gets home mainly because I've been stuck in the house for months now (bed rest then newborn) and he always goes out leaving me alone with the baby. Jealousy is an evil bitch :/
@rainbowbaby1029 If it were me I wouldn't make a big deal about it. This is an opportunity to give him a pass and not hold it over his head. Take it! 😊
@mhbb3 our friend offered to pay for him
I think its kinda unfair if the only reason is cause you havnt been.
Depends on the circumstances and how the plans arose, etc.
It’s a normal feeling, what I try to do is use words like I would really like it to be us time or I use “I feel”. It makes mean think a little bit more about feelings. Me and my boyfriend have 4 babies and we’ve been together for 7 years just this past August. We don’t know a time with out babies in our relationship. I have a limit as well, because I am with the kids more time then he is so I understand where your coming from. I been trying to talk calmly and more about my feelings toward what he’s doing, because if that was him saying I can’t do something I would probably lose it on him