Ladies I need some advice from the mum's that work full time.
Me and my partner both work full time, my little girl is almost 4 and she's is at nursery 4 days a week doing 9 till 3pm I usually work evenings till 11pm or 1am, so I only see my little girl at the weekends and 8 till 9 am when I get her ready for nursery. It is very exhausting, I feel like I am a bad mum because she's always at the nana's and I don't get to see her very often. I am slowly thinking of going part time as I feel like I am not being enough 5here for my little girl. Do you mum's working full time feels the same?😢😢
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I'm a manager so the hours are limited I could only do 6am-3
10-7, 2-11 Or 4-1am.
I always have someone to pick her up but I'm the only one that can drop her off as her dad works mainly mornings and his mum can also pick her up c
I’m not a working mum but I can tell you, you are definitely not alone!! I’m at home all day with my girls and my son is in school. I feel like I never see him! Don’t feel guilty, she is well looked after and you are working hard to provide. X
I wasn't full time but 4full days so I understand a little of the guilt you feel working. If you can afford to cut your hours then I'd say yeh go for it. It's when we don't have the choice if we work/ don't work it can become hard. My eldest is 4 & just started school so I've cut my hours so I can pick him up everyday. Even though I'm not bringing much money home it feels more balanced. Work and being with my children.