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Sandi West
number6
Sandi West
Anyone here been stuck in a relationship with a narcissist? I don’t even know what to do anymore 😔 Been TTC for over 3 yrs now I don’t even know if I want to be pregnant anymore. Everything I do is wrong and every fight is somehow my fault even when he flips out about nothing then has the audacity to say I treat HIM like he can’t do anything right. We’ve been together 7yrs, married for 5. Blended family and as bad as he is our house is still far better for his kids and mine that their other parents (my ex is a total deadbeat, his ex is an addict). Kids are attached to each other and to us as parents, we don’t even use the word step. But I’m so depressed right now and have no idea what to do. He’s def getting worse, worse outbursts and getting physical without actually hitting me. So lost rn. Just need to talk to someone who’s been here ig.
23.08.2018
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number6
number6
@morganmommy79, definitely sounds like we have similar situations!! I’m absolutely open to venting to each other. May help us both see things a bit more clearly. It’s always easier to see things for what they are as a third party. Mentally I just feel like I’m stuck on pause right now bc I can’t make myself plan for the future like this but I also can’t quite stomach leaving either. It’s driving me nuts bc usually I’m a very motivated productive person and I’m just doing the necessary stuff to get by right now and spending tons of time trying to work things out in my head. I look forward to talking to you more & hang in there ((HUGS))
26.08.2018 Нравится Ответить
morganmommy79
morganmommy79
I’ve been with my husband for 6 1/2 years and he’s def got a narcissistic personality. We are also a blended family. I can tell you the last 6 years of my life has been hell because of his issues, his family, and my ex and his new wife. There are good days but they are rare. I’m not even sure he’s 100% narcissist yet but I’d say he’s def headed there if not. I love him and hate him too if that makes since. Lol maybe we can vent to each other about it until we figure out what’s what 😁
25.08.2018 Нравится Ответить
number6
number6
Thank you for the replies. I am very concerned about how his behavior is effecting the kids, specifically ik it’s effecting his boys as they have started to be more disrespectful to me the more he treats me like I’m beneath him in front of them. Also very concerned about teaching my two daughters and his daughter that it’s ok for a man to treat you like this bc I don’t want that for them! I have been trying to talk to him about getting help for years but he’s a vet and totally opposed to talking to anyone bc he doesn’t trust anyone & doesn’t want “labels”. I think I am going to make some calls tomorrow and get some info for myself for counseling & let him know he needs to do the same if we’re going to make this work.
24.08.2018 Нравится Ответить
🙏🙏🙏🙏 Get out or get help. Your home could be the best ever but, a relationship that's any kind of abuse I'm sure the kids see/hear it either way. Good luck to you. Definitely keep u in 🙏. Try to get help it strengthen your family. Hope he could change for the best of it all.
24.08.2018 Нравится Ответить
mhbb29
mhbb29
Counseling. If you don't want to end the relationship you have to find a way to make it healthy. That takes work and commitment from both of you. He needs individual therapy too. It's concerning that he acts like that in the home you raise your children.
23.08.2018 Нравится Ответить
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