Okay I need to vent again. So I got into another fight with my sister again. I said something to her. She moved out 2 weeks ago to be with her BD. Now my mom is mad at me and everytime I come over she refuses to pay attention to my daughter which I really didn't notice. But she last time she said that she was mad at me because I what said to my older sister and she misses her other granddaughter my sister's daughter. And I told her really I thought we were over that? And she I know but if I don't talk about something then I'll still be mad about it. My dad told her to evem knock it off and pay attention to Thomasina. Okay, so now I've been mad at my mom because she's being completely ignoring my daughter because of something I said. I'm debating on whether or not if I should tell her that my daughter isn't worth her time or attention then she doesn't need you in her life? Or should I just give her a chance, keep it all inside and let it kill me and hope it fizzles away? I'm just so hurt by this. It's so typical of my mom and her family to pick favorites out of spite. She just drove over 100 to see Agentha (my sister's daughter) and won't hardly ever see my daughter when we only live 25 miles away. She was willing to risk it all and show her time and love to her. But she says "too scared" to show her love to my daughter because she's afraid I was going to stop her from seeing her . Which I never have. All I know I'm so know done with this situation. If I go over to my mom's it will only to be see my dad and little brothers.
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@mrs.letty.luna Yeah you're right. It's just really hurtful to me that'd she ignored my daughter and yet drive over 100 miles and spend the night to see her other granddaughter. But will barely see mine. I will forgive her in time, and I do need to keep my distance.
@jack.ass I'm not really bringing her into the drama I'm keeping her out of it. I've been coming over to her place and she's been ignoring my daughter. My daughter doesn't deserve to be treated like that. Even my dad told her to stop ignoring my daughter. But she hasn't. I will definitely talk to her though. When my daughter tried to go to her, my mom handed her right back to me. She barely sees her even though I only live 25 miles away
@mhbb3 I gave her number of chances but she always ruin them. She picks her favorites, then she cry wolf about how I won't let her see my daughter
Why would you bring a 2 yr old in on the drama. Don’t say anything to your daughter and tell your mom when she’s ready to be an adult and not punish a child in an adult situation to call you and let you know.
Too much drama. Both of you need to put aside the petty stuff and not let whatever is happening between the two of you, get in between the grandparent-grandchild relationship.
Moms mess up but if it were me then I'd not let my daughter be seen for q while and if your mom ask you why then tell her why if not bo need to get hurt by her take back the power forgive and keep your distance
@mrs.letty.luna Thanks I really appreciate it