So my mom hates my daughters father and she gets mad at me for basically letting him be involved. So my baby shower is coming and him and his family would like to come. I told her and she basically told me if they come , she’s not coming. And by allowing him there I don’t want her or my grandma there? It’s really confusing me. She also says she’s gonna tell my grandma that there uninvited but I told her , they both can come it’s not a big deal.. she says she doesn’t wanna be around these people and be cause I have no disrespect for myself and lower myself, she doesn’t have to.. am I wrong ? Am I choosing him over my family like she says cause it’s been stressing me out. Why would she say that?