I don't understand men. Take my husband for example. So we have this ex girlfriend that came to me last year saying her boyfriend was beating her and she wanted to get out so my husband was there two different times and she never got on the truck with him. So two weeks ago she hit me saying to come get her and her daughter. So I was trying to get the gas money up to drive and get her but than she tells me she will let me know. So I never left to get her. Mind you she is pregnant again with her abusive ex boyfriend's kid. I'm sorry but I don't want or need her damn drama. So what does my husband do? He still is telling her we want to be with her and they start a family but I'm still in it somewhere. I'm pass done with this woman. The only time she hits us up is for money. I'm sorry but I can't take care of you and your kid when I have 4 of my own. And bills to pay. But my husband is still trying to idk get her to see or what something that we will take care of them on top of me and our 4 kids. Plus we are trying to have our 5th children together. I don't see how taking them in would help them or us as we speak. Idk. I'm just ranting. Please no rude or shit talking please I can't take it all right now.