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Kourtney
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Bummed. I'm stuck in a woe is me rut lately. I've been going back and forth between going to hygiene school and just…

Bummed.

I'm stuck in a woe is me rut lately. I've been going back and forth between going to hygiene school and just staying a dental assistant. I LOVE being an assistant, like truthfully love it, I'm very passionate about my job and I just generally love it. I want more, more responsibility and more money lol. Hygiene school would give me both of those, but I don't think I'd love it like I do assisting. I have a huge fear of not being able to care for my kids if something ever happened to my husband, living off what I make we could make it, but not as comfortably as I'd like. I wish that I realized I had this passion for dentistry when I was younger, I could have gone to dental school and became a dentist. Im 26 with two kids and a husband and dental school isn't an option now. I don't know what I'm looking for by posting this, maybe advice, maybe I just need to cry to somebody else. If you have any advice it's welcome ?

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!

Okay update. I dropped the kids off at school and they had to check their hair and they were good. I talked to the…

Okay update. I dropped the kids off at school and they had to check their hair and they were good. I talked to the teacher and she said that they didn't have a case but that an older sibling had it and I guess the mom treated both kids. I was like oh but if you have a case do we get notified and she said no, it's a HIPPA violation. 🤯 I said how, I'm not asking for names and you don't even have to say it was in their class. I feel like now the parents weren't told that their kids have been in contact and I'm ready to homeschool. She said everything is kept separate with covid going on. I feel like I'll be dealing with this again and I'm kinda annoyed. I don't want to seem like a crazy mom but I'm like should I call their doctor to see what the school is supposed to do.