Need to vent!
My coworker just announced she's 2 months pregnant with her third child. I'm ashamed at how jealous and sad I am over it. I've been trying to conceive my first for nearly 2 years now. I told her congrats etc but deep down it hurts. She is constantly complaining and says things to the effect of "you don't understand" or "you don't know what it's like to have a family".
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I f*** ing hate it when people say that stuff and I snap and say you no what I don't understand I have no idea but I've been trying to get pregnant for 2 years and would be more than happy to go through pregnancy complaint free so you should shut up and be thankful for that healthy baby.
It's tough, having to pick up their slack makes it even more aggravating. For example, tomorrow I have to drive 2 hours out of my way, after work, to attend a work related meeting by myself. No other coworkers can go. At the same time I had plans but mine must not be as important.
Try not to be jealous hun. I deeply regret being jealous of my sister in law.
She announced she was pregnant with her 6th and the whole time I was super jealous, but a little happy.
She's currently going through a miscarriage at 16 weeks. And I feel terrible for how jealous I was. Guilt hit my hard.
That sucks. I don't have too much input (stay at home mom). But, I think when you do get pregnant and your child is here, you will understand more. It's difficult to see that now. But, you too will need to take off, leave early or Come in late. It happens. My fiancé (he has no bio kids, I have three from previous marriage) says he understands you! Before me, he was alone and people with kids were always leaving early, etc for some reason and he had to pick up the slack.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
It will happen for us all. I'm just trying to stay healthy and of positive mind. Who knows maybe I will get a two for one special. (Twins)????