Lol good then yeh if yall ever agree to a 3sum again make sure its someone that dont share a house with yall lol :)

Thanks for sharing your stories!

I think it was just really weird that I had to see the girl the next day and every day after that... Lol... I've let it go since and both SO and I agreed it wouldn't happen again (not with her at least)

All yall stories are so amazing lol if your SO down with the whole 3sum thing and you know he won't go behide your back then have fun but dont get attached ... because little do you know it could happen getting attached during a quick f*** ..like I was saying im more into women and I know if I had a 3sum with my bf I would be into the girl more thats just me though everybody different

Past.. not with SO he wants to have one but im not too sure about it only because I know how I am im into women more and im just not tryna hurt him so I rather not do it again

I have. Not with SO though. It was the night I lost my virginity.. One of my very close friends decided to help me finally let go of the v card (I was 17). It ended up being me her and her friend. Went down on New Years so an interesting way to start off the year lol. Also another time with that same friend and now my daughters godmother as a teen.
SO &' I have talked about having a threesome of our own. I thought I'd be too jealous but came around once it was agreed by the three of us that a trusted friend of mine would be the third. SO backed out the night before. He has brought up being interested in a threesome after that but I'm not buying into the hype again ?

I'm not against it, honestly I'm more attracted to women than men, I just told my SO to wait until after the baby gets here so I want it again (no point if I'm not in the mood lol). I'm not jealous becuz he said he would want me first, and wouldn't do anything unless I was there or he'd feel like it was cheating. He's ok with it to change up our sex life, but he has absolutely no interest in any woman other than me (lucky me

Wow... I'm sorry to hear that... I'm going for my yearly next month and will do the whole testing thing... Both of us will

Ya it was bull I regret it n ended up with clap from the girl n didn't find out for over a yr :((

Thanks ladies...

I think I am over thinking the situation... I tend to over think every thing...

I appreciate the replies

You don't have to identify or even lable your feelings. You might be over thinking this. Let your feelings come to you when they do, don't try to hunt them down.
Emotions are like waves.. they are best experienced when we just ride them out and don't swim too deeply into them.

Well that's good at least. But I'm not sure on the feelings, that's a tough one. Do you have feelings for the girl, or was it just something that kind of happened? If you're not attached to her romantically, I say leave it be. Everyone has desires, you got them out of your system. If you want more, go for it. If you don't, don't worry about it. As long as all three of you are clear on how each other feels about it, you should be fine.

I'm not worried about him cheating or touching her... we have both talked about it and he knows the boundaries... Honestly I was the aggressor and initiated the whole thing... It wasn't planned, just something that happened... We have all been friends for a while... Nothing is awkward I'm just trying to figure out home I feel... How I'm supposed to feel

No way would I have a threesome with my SO and a female that lives with us. That's just asking for him to cheat. Not saying that he will, but that just means that boundaries are a little loose now. Unless you plan on doing it again, I'd made it very clear to my SO that that was a one time thing and he is in no way allowed to touch her unless you okay it.

Thanks for the responses ladies...

I ask because my DF and I talked about it while we were on vacation last year... I agreed although the thought of sharing wasn't appealing to me... I wouldn't say jealous just don't want to share... A few months ago a friend of his passed away and left behind a fiancé and almost 2 year old son... After talking we let her move in with us short term until she got back on her feet... Mostly my idea because I remember being her age (21) and having no support when I needed it... Long story short we ended up having a threesome by accident on Sunday night... Although we all enjoyed ourselves I'm still not really sure how to feel about the whole situation... Sorry if that doesn't make sense

No. I just don't find women attractive like that, and I couldn't imagine being with two guys at the same time. I wouldn't want to have one, even if I was attracted to females. I'm super jealous, and I know it wouldn't turn out very good for the other girl lol.