Don’t let a doctor stress you out about weight gain. The most important thing is to feed you and that baby! Eat small, frequent meals (every two to three hours) and try to get in at least 30 mins of activity a day. My midwife makes no mention of my weight. I’m having a healthy pregnancy and so far I’ve gained about 20 lbs. My old doctor said I was only “allowed” to gain 25 lbs. My midwife said there is no correct amount.