@jaymebaby07, that’s good! I’m glad he apologized

Are okay*

@njgriffin, we were able to talk about it. He apologized to me and told me that he didn’t mean to make me feel insecure. I’m still making our marriage counseling appt for this coming week and I have put my foot down and told him that he can’t talk to her anymore. Things were too suspicious. There is more to the story but we ar splay for now lol

@jaymebaby07, any updates? Lol

@ohbabybaby88, thank you. We have gone through worse things and have come out of it as a stronger couple. I just wish we wouldn’t have to deal with situations like this. I feel like everything gets so much better because we work with each other and communicate netter and then BAM 💥 I can’t catch a break. We will see what he says......

@jaymebaby07 good luck hun really I hope it all works out. It reeeeally doesn't make sense to me he wouldn't have his "best friends" phone number

@ohbabybaby88, I’m telling you, there is just too much for me to be suspicious about. He really shouldn’t dismiss my feelings either.....I’m going to try to talk to him calmly when he gets home in about 5 minutes. I’m really not angry I just want to know the full truth on everything. He can’t call her his “best friend”. He gave her his number on instagram this morning. She isn’t his best friend....I wouldn’t even call her a close friend.

@jaymebaby07 my question would be why Instagram if they're such good friends why wouldn't she text him regular? I wanna point out it could still be nothing because he isn't hiding that they spoke/speak but I'd give it some time for you to calm down and ask him if you guys could talk calmly and rationally about it! He shouldn't dismiss your feelings

@ohbabybaby88, he called me on his way to work to tell me that she had messaged him on insta and that she was having relationship problems and needed his advice. He wanted to to tell him how I felt about it and I said uncomfortable and he got mad at me. That’s how this whole things started

@jaymebaby07 I mean I would think that he probably would have mentioned her at least In passing or something some conversation somewhere. I haven't read a lot of comments on here did you say how you realize they were talking? Like did he tell you about it

@lana2018, yeahhhhh that’s always been a thought 🤔

@ohbabybaby88, we used to live in CA. We have been here in NC for two years now. He knew her from prior to us being together. The thing is....if they were such good friends why did he never tell me anything about her at all? We have been together for 3 years and he maybe has mentioned her once? Idk

@jaymebaby07 waaaaaittt so then how do they know each other so well? I mean still possible but I now I wanna know lol. She could've been a really good friend that moved away and they lost contact? That's why he didn't mention her?

@ohbabybaby88, there is one thing I have failed to mention this whole time because I haven’t even thought about it until now but we live in NC and she lives in CA so she isn’t even around physically.....I feel like he is just oblivious!

@jaymebaby07 ughh I'm sorry he's not listening to your feelings, that's the worst part!!! How would she talk to you meaning do you see her and she just ignores you?