Omg! I was literally thinking about this last night. My baby daddy decided to stay with me until she’s born so he can “help me.” He cleaned some old food out of the fridge, took the trash out, and put away HALF of the groceries. He didn’t even put up the heaviest thing we bought. He never noticed that I was the one who picked up the heavy cat litter and put it away. So much for help! Lol