Alright .... I’m posting this in hopes to see if I’m not the only one... I may be, today I hit an all time low. I thought about leaving my family, it’s all too much and I feel way too alone... but yet I’m married. I don’t ask for help because I’m constantly hearing “I never had this help with y’all” from my mom. My mother in law stays with us but I find it had to ask for help with her also because she works all day and comes home tired. But her and my father in law always throws out little hits towards me and my husband expects me to just ignore it. Things like “make sure you’re giving my baby her medicine” (my daughter is sick) “Danielle where’s dinner” or whenever I do cook, “let’s go with the food” i really feel like I’m in over my head. I’m not cut out to have a family and I feel that my husband isn’t helping as much as I want him to, but I don’t ask for help because last time I did he laughed and said no because he was too tired.... last night I broke down, and honestly thought what am I doing here. Maybe she’s better off without me. And all day today I thought the same thing because Adrienne just cried all day.... but with anyone else she doesn’t give trouble, as a mom I know my daughter needs me but I feel like everyone else around me can do a better job... so why don’t they 😓😒😢😢😪😪🤧
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@ymoreno16, not leaving her alone just with everyone else who thinks they can do better. My husband always has a suggestion so I’ll suggest he find something to do with her I’m tired of doing this by myself when I have a husband. He’s like a roommate that sleeps in my bed. Most of the time I’m pretty happy around her and she’s still in a cranky mood. I told my husband I need help and he said get a babysitter or something but when I ask him if we can hire one he said no so if what to do. They don’t believe in childcare.
@eryka616, thank you... can’t really do therapy, I don’t have anyone to watch her while I go. My husband says that he tells me to go out all the time but he doesn’t. And honestly I feel like if I have to ask for him to watch her then that’s a problem. He never volunteers really. Or if I go to target by myself he’ll call me like where are you. Only out time I have is while I’m in class and either my mom my mother in law watches her. I’m so beyond fed up I’ve been crying almost all night
She feeds off your energy if you're sad she will be sad her mood depends on how you feeling momma ask for the help you need never never leave your child alone nobody will have her back like you ever will its hard but trust me there's a lot of help out there. Be strong
I’m so sorry mama! It sounds like postpartum depression. You should talk to your doctor and start going to therapy. Having a baby is hard, but I know you can do it. Maybe you need a break is there anyone who can watch her a few hours while you get out? Or even do you have a friend you can go to the park with so you can get some adult time while she plays? If you need anything feel free to message me.
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
Overall whats everyones thoughts on this. Me personally I dont mind lgbt .but to teach it I feel like is a waste . I can teach my own children that if they ask or even wanna know
I’m 19 and pregnant and I don’t know anything about being pregnant and all that stuff. Someone please help.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
@eryka616, 😔😔 thank you I really appreciate it... I think I’ll be ok. Idk.. I think I will be. I should be