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Claudia Marsh
Claudia Marsh
Мама дочки (2 года)

God people in this app piss me off. I payed something earlier about wanting to clean and putting my toddler in a booster…

God people in this app piss me off. I payed something earlier about wanting to clean and putting my toddler in a booster harness seat and I guess I need te explain as people were ready to call cps. So first of all I have an almost 3 year old daughter who is super add. Meaning she won’t just play with toys or won’t just watch tv. Means her attention span is no more than 10 min tops. She can get out of cribs and play pens. I am a single mother that NEEDS to clean and work 40+ hours and is paying her rent by cleaning and taking care of my friends older daughter. Now saying all of that after a new diaper, breakfast and lots of Love I sometimes sit her in the middle of the room strapped up with her booster harness to where it’s neither too tight or two loose, and leave her to watch age aprópiate cartoons for 30 min while I clean. No it IS NOT child abuse nor child neglect and FYI lady’s I already talked to preschool teachers and they say it’s ok. Also just to make sure I even talked to cos and they say that’s NOT abuse. So yeah just wanting to clarify.

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mommyof3kiddos

JennyМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

I put my daughter in her carseat while I clean cause she's the same way. That's not being abusive.

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deleted-user

Yeah, but that's not what you said. You said when she's being bad, you expect us to believe she just sits there peacefully while she's being punished??

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lost.sock.thief

Tara🤙🏻Мама двоих (младенец)

If she’s not screaming or panicking ect i think it’s fine

Better than just letting her loose to get into god knows what while you clean

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starienite

SomerМама двоих (1 год, 9 лет)

I think it’s fine if she will sit there. My neighbor puts her son in his high chair strapped in with a few toys while she cleans the kitchen or makes dinner. My son would scream and scream if I put him in his high chair. Lol. He will barley sit there long enough to eat a meal.

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claudiabliss1996

Claudia MarshМама дочки (2 года)

Cps*

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I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit…

I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit around and after awhile my husband takes him to the back & the next thing I know he’s coming in the house with a weird look on his face, asking her if there was something he should know, I instantly gets up just in case someone turns into a maniac....... well long story short he cried & told her how disloyal she is & how disappointed he was.. she’s crying asking me why would I do that.. I’m like 🤷🏽 ♀ it wasn’t right........ Our other friends are saying that he’s giving her a hard time and that he sleeping on the couch, not eating her food and won’t talk to her.. she’s not talking to me (of course) & I now feel like we could have handled it in a different manner ... idk seeing a grown man cry like he did was just heart breaking!

Trigger warning UPDATE IN COMMENTS

Trigger warning UPDATE IN COMMENTS So going off of my poll about using correct body terms I need some 2nd opinions. I feel like I am so paranoid about this. So my sil has been with my brother for 12 years now. Our families are really close. We clean for her mom and step dad every two weeks and house sit from time to time. Her mom absolutely adores my dd so we would bring her with us. I started noticing that her stepdad would always want to bring her in another room. I didn't think anything because they could occupy her while we cleaned no big deal. Her mom would often lay down because she has severe fibromyalgia and has a hard time with pain. But then he would say things like let's go in the play room and change your diaper. And if we went into that room to vacuum or clean the bathroom he seemed burdened that we went in there. Odd. I mentioned it to dh and he started getting uncomfortable with her being alone with him. I just always had a weird feeling about how he acted and the things he'd say. I just didn't really start paying attention until after awhile. He always says things like why don't you come sit on my lap. It always just sounded weird when he said it. I don't want to cause trouble if nothing is really happening but would his behavior strike you as odd or weird? Should I be concerned?