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Lynoshka
lilolove
Lynoshka
Hii Girls! Good Morning!...
So today I woke up with a big problem in my head....
The father of my son and other soon to be born has been messing up a lot specially with our 1 year old son so thats why I left him 2 to 3 weeks ago and that was a big deal for him so he comes back one day saying his sorry and to give him 1 last chance and I told him I already gave him 3 chances and he haven't appreciated it enough so now he wants a last one but i told him he need to put himself together and fix it with his son bcuz I myself dont think I can give another chance with me cuz its not the same even tho I still feel some for him but its not how I used to feel bfore and the big deal here is that he haven't even give his last name to our son and he is 1 year old ... He told me hes gonna do it but I cant wait no more .... So he does still love me and I seen it but Im not sure if it is bcuz he cant stand to be alone or if its bcuz he still love me like he says....

So girls what should I do?
Should I give him another chance or no but to fix things with his son?
Please dont put bad comments I just want to hear opinions or suggestions

Thanks
05.12.2017

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lilolove
lilolove
@missheatherbaby Ok tahnks I will think bout this ... U girls have been helpful
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missheatherbaby
missheatherbaby
@lilolove, sometimes being pregnant alters your thinking process because your more vulnerable. Trust me I have went through it. If you really think he’s being genuine and will change then give him one more chance but be very serious about what you expect from him. If you think he’s full of shit then tell him to kick rocks.
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lilolove
lilolove
@missheatherbaby I know... He wasn't looking for his son and expending time with him and he was lying to his parents saying that he sees him a lot I mean we live one block away from each other and we were together but I didn't saw enough outta him only lies and i know he was going threw things but I always been here and I've been threw things too and mostly now than Im preggo and I couldn't afford more stress cuz It will harm my babies
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lilolove
lilolove
@rayanna20 Thanks .... Im really trying to work it put but its hard to understand what my heart really wants... Of course I still feel love for him and I want to be a family but he didn't gave me enough support then so I don't know if he will do it now even he is showing some what support but I don't want to make another mistake and I already been there 3 times already I will gladly go for a 4th chance bcuz he's the father of my babies and I still feel some love for him but I mean I don't know if it will work out for the better... Should I keep hurting my heart and give it up or should I give it time to heal and process everything to think right?!!!
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alexias
alexias
Give him a chance , youre have babies with him . You're gonna need his support thru this all no matter the situation work it out, talk it out don't ignore whatever he did don't put yourself thru negative situations this is suppose to be a happy time for you & your family. & if you really can't stand to be with him , co parent of course stay positive! Hope everything works out ❤
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missheatherbaby
missheatherbaby
It depends what he did for you to get this upset in the first place.
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