I been lifting my kid who is a put 20 pounds and I’m back is officially out . I have two herniated discs , And one where I can’t even sit in a chair . Today I tried to leak over to put my daughter in her exercise saucer and I heard a tear in my back and 5 min later no feeling in my fingers and arms while I was carrying her. Fell to the floor with my kid 8 year old just looking at me . I need something to help me lift my kid . I literally have no ability to pick her up or bend . My nanny not here , husband slashed her hours . My family could care less .