@sadiesmommy, well at the end of the day it made you a stronger person. And living through it you can teach your daughter how not to have them. There's some things, yes, she can miss out on. But in this day and age it's slim to none. Some babies have two mommies and no dads. You don't need a man in her life. She needs people who love her and treat her like the princess she is 💜

Life with out my son father is awesome to me it's not that bad I promise don't be hard on urself believe ur mother instincts will kick in and this feeling will leave

@kailey.gallentine yeah and I am all of that but I do have daddy issues because I didn't have a father I missed out on so much because he was never around

She doesn't need a dad to be a happy child. My bio father was never in my life and I've only met him once. It hasn't negatively affected myself or my life or my mannerisms one bit. I don't have ANY desire to meet him and I had an amazing childhood because he wasn't there. Sometimes an absent father is 100% less damaging than a half ass one. It's all about how you handle a situation and who you raise your daughter to be. Being a single mom isn't the end of the world babe. And you don't need to find love and have a man in your life to be the kick ass mom you're built to be. Just slowly work towards getting out of ALL the negativity your family brings and move on. There are programs to help with EVERYTHING especially for single moms. Job placement, govt aid, all that! It's doable. It's not a walk in the park. But it's doable.
You gotta teach your daughter to be a strong ass independent woman who doesn't need a man and can work for everything she has and more. You can teach her to be a responsible, compassionate, loving, and accountable human being all while being a single mom

But you can't think like that n expect to have what you want......I was taught prepare for the worse n hope for the best.. I know things look dem now but out that effort in towards the positive change n see what happens

@saniyyahhasan and I'm also living proof not everyone has a happy ending not everyone finds their soul mates and has a good father figure around

He took that job of daddy of my son. My son never seen his dad. Well sort of we broke up when he was 2 months old. He don't even claim my son but the DNA did thru the court but won't pay ordered child support. My son call my hubby daddy. N my hubby call my son his. I telling you this bc there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Just take a step back n work on you n your baby. I am living proof that everything will be OK

Please don't be hard on your self take a step back n work on the things you can help first

I was a single mom several times in my life first BD was controlling n got into drugs he left me when I was diagnosed with cancer. I moved on several years later to a man who abused me n when my cancer came back he cheated instead of support n I stayed for 3 yrs n had my son but the abuse continued n the cheating so I had to leave. I was single mom with two kids. I too became very depressed n thought about taking my life too but my kids would not have a mom. I use to smoke n drink n take anti depression pills. I hit rock bottom sort of speak. Something told me to stop n get back into my religion slowly. And I did I stopped my bad habits n stop taking those nasty pills. I worked in myself for a year n was finally ready to find a hubby thru my religion it took another year but I found my now husband. Long story short we been married for 3 yrs now but known each other for 4

@saniyyahhasan yeah I'm the child of a single mom that's where my frustration comes from because my whole life the one person I wanted to give a fuck never has

My son don't have his father in his life BUT I was patient enough to eventually some one who took that job of being a dad to him. You have to have patience n faith in God