So I rarely post in here anymore ladies. So trying to catch up. I'm currently 17wks 4days. Things have been so hard being exhausted and sore from this pregnancy while chasing around a very overly active toddler (my daughter is 16 months) I've been working extremely more than I should. I am bartending & waitressing, I'm making a killing doing it but I know it's going to catch up to me soon. My hubby is out fishing all the time (he's a commercial fishermen, so it's not for fun.. it's his job) and he makes amazing $ doing so but I'm barely seeing him at all anymore between my schedule & his. There's barely any one on one time. He also picked up a new hobby called disc golf. It's his new favorite thing to do so if he's not fishing.. he's out playing disc golf with his friends. I'm trying not to get upset because I'm so happy he's found a hobby for himself that he loves doing & keeps him occupied and happy but at the same time I would like to spend a little time with him when I can and he doesn't seem to understand that. I think he's preparing for when the new baby comes because he knows that he won't be able to be out all the time once Andrew Junior is born but I would like to be able to spend time one on one before AJ is born & all my attention will be turned to him. It's all just so very difficult. Would that upset any of you? I've tried talking to him about it and he just seems to get mad at me so idk
For sure talk to him about how much it bothers you. Pregnancy hormones can get the best of you. We always make time for a babymoon during each pregnancy.
Communication and effort will go a long way in a marriage with kids. Good luck mama!