@typicalwifegirl can you send me the names or links to those apps? I'd like to look at them

It helps alot thank you

I got really good at tying mine up in a bun, then using head bands and hairspray to keep everything out of my face. It's harder than just getting a cut, but it works!
There are also apps you can use to sort of see different hair lengths and styles on you, or give you some idea of what it will look like.

I actually learned recently that hair has a time where it basically goes "dormant" and stops growing at a certain length. That's why body hair is always short. Some people, that length is shorter than others. Mine stops growing just below shoulder length for me, or at least slows waaaay down, but grows out to that length pretty fast after a cut. I'm not sure that info helps, but it's interesting at least 😂

@canaryv I kinda want to but I'm really scared to. I'm not good with change. I'm scared that I'll like my hair short too much to try and grow it out again because I've struggled to get my hair any longer then it currently is. Which is about to the back of my bra. Does that make any sense?

I'd cut it if that's what you want :) I used to grow my hair out every 2-3 years and then chop it all off lol but I personally never did anything with my hair other than have it tied up so cutting it wasn't a big deal to me. It took those 2-3 years to reach the original length tho