I need some advice ladies.
Through these two years of living with my fiancé, I've never stopped coming across things that belonged to his ex wife. They were only married about 4 months and dated for 9 months. So they relationship was rocky and short. We have a 6 month old, just want to add. A few times when I've come across her things, I've said something and he immediately throws it away. He apologizes and says he didn't know there were there. Tonight while cleaning the laundry room I came across some bags filled with papers so I decided to go through them. I found karinas [ EX WIFE ] stuff. Like birthday cards, insurance papers and along we're a few notes from my husband to her and how much he loved her. One said
"my angel, remember when you were little and you were excited that Christmas was the next day and you looked forward to it? That's how I feel with you everyday. I love you karina"

Reading this breaks my Heart because doesn't do that for me. He does bring me flowers, tells me he loves me. Randomly texts me through the day and says I love you. Stares at me while I'm doing something. But why isn't he with me like he was with his ex? He married right way. We're engaged and he says we'll get married when we have money because he wants a big wedding. And he's never had one although he's been married twice before.

If it matters I am 21 and he is 34.