I am having the hardest time with my three year old. He has the worse listening problem. I cannot go out to eat wuthout him throwing tge bigest tantrum because, he wants to rome around. That's not my biggest problem, I tell him not to do something and he'll look me dead in the eye and do it. Time out doesn't work with him he will constantly fight me. If I whoop him he'll laugh. Everyone says because I am not stern. I cannot change my voice. I've tried everything and I really do not like to whoop him. But this kid is out of control. Any advice?