Has anybody here been pregnant or gotten pregnant while another family member is pregnant? I recently found out that I am pregnant, even though we didn't plan it we are excited to have another baby. However my brother in laws gf is about 5 months pregnant & she constantly tells me I'm not ready to have another baby & this is her time to be pampered which is why we haven't told anyone we are expecting again. Now, my other brother in laws fiancée says she's been trying to get pregnant & hasn't been able to. I am a lot closer to her so knowing she's having trouble conceiving makes me feel bad about telling her. Ughh I'm just a little confused. I just needed to vent😪
Anybody been in a similar situation?
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Ill would tell the whole 🌎 your going to get pampered by ur hubby so she cant say shit beside your five weeks and for your sis in law im pretty sure she will be happy for you if you are close
@js_kidsmom, yes! My sister in law had her baby about 7 months before I had my son & they're always comparing them saying her son did things way faster than my son🙄
mine is my sister in law my fiancés sister 🙄
I was pregnant of my first and told my family 2 weeks later my cousin announced she was pregnant. We were due 2 weeks apart we had fun being pregnant together. Then for my second my other cousin was in her 3rd trimester when I found out I was pregnant but cuz of family drama we didn't talk much right before she gave birth. Now I'm pregnant and my brother in laws wife is too. She's due prolly a month after me idk too much7 because I can't stand her ass so there's no communication.
First off no one has the right to tell you if youre ready for another baby, thts totally your decision. My whole family went through a baby boom phase nd all our babies are about 5 months apart everything was fine
My cousin and I had our babies 2 days apart. But I don't speak to my family much so they pampered her and my bfs family and my friends did me lol
Not really but my cousin was pregnant at the same time as me. We couldn't really bond or celebrate it together bc we just r not that. She came to my baby shower but I didn't even go to hers- that's totally bc she lied about coming to my gender reveal tho 💁🏽 lol
Me and my sister in law have been pregnant together the past two years
I have a friend in a similar situation but it's her sister that wants to be pampered while another sister is not able to have kids. But damn can you say jealousy? It is a tough situation and you are being mindful of your BIL'S fiancee and I can't really relate to that but as far as your brothers gf I just think that is ignorant of her to even say or think. This should be a time for everyone to be happy and especially welcome a new life to the world. It bugs me that people who say those things love attention. As far as your other dear friend who cannot have kids I am sure she loves to be around them and wishes she could have them. I know she will be happy for you both regardless.
I don't have a family member since I don't have a relationship with any of my family on either side. But my best friend and her husband have been trying for over a year and a half with no luck. My husband came home in March from being gone for a few months and I got pregnant right away (I conceived about a week later) and I don't want to tell her either because I know it will make her sad even though she will be happy for me at the same time.. Its definitely a hard situation.
All babies are different and. Urs is 7 month smaller. So dont feel bad shit they are more dum comparing when there is a big gap in between