Have any other moms felt horrible for your first born after you had your second? Idk why but I get so down and feel so bad everytime I think about my daughter. I still give her attention and cuddle her but I feel like I hurt her by having another baby and it breaks my heart. When I'm holding/feeding the baby and she comes up to me wanting to be picked up and I have to tell her I can't i just want to ball my eyes out. Will this feeling ever go away? 😭
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I only have one... and when I think about if I have another I get to sad and change my mind
I want to have a baby so bad and my boyfriend feels the same but says hes not financially ready...so does welfare have to be paid back?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
I was the same way in the beginning. I still feel bad when I'm not available when he needs me, but luckily he isn't jealous and never gets upset. If you can, get your daughter to help with as much as she can, like grab a diaper for you, a burp cloth, things like that. It helped my son tremendously with feeling like he was helping with his baby sister. I hope it gets easier for ya mama💖