Does anyone else live vicariously through their kids? They had "80s Day" at school and I couldn't help but go all out. Just joined this group. My kids are growing so fast. Cheyenne will be 8 on March 26th & Izzie is 6. I remember wanting them to be able to do things for themselves. And now they can. Am I a terrible mom because I don't miss those days of 2:00am feedings & no sleep? I never hold a baby and wish I was still at that stage with mine or get "baby fever". And people don't believe me when I say that I don't regret getting my tubes clamped. I'm perfectly content with my beautiful girls. Sure I would've liked to have had a boy but these two are smart, funny & beautiful. And they drive me crazy. Just want another persons opinion on whether it's terrible I don't miss them being little. I love the little people they are and imagining the big people they'll become.