So i just found out one of my husbands cousins is pregnant and i couldn't help but feel super jealous. Like my initial emotion was not happiness. WTF is wrong with me!? I JUST had a baby 7weeks ago. I dont understand why i feel this way.
@sherilynne23, dont be sorry, im an emotional mess. Im just really struggling. Sometimes i worry that im not bonding with her at all. My delivery was hard, i had a c section and i feel like it just took away that moment when i would see her for that first time and hold her in my arms. I dreamt of that moment my entire pregnancy. I was high and never really got to soak it in. I feel like im a live in nanny instead of a mom.
@rmarte aww I definitely wasn't trying to make you cry 😔 I'm sorry lady! I just wanted to let you know it's a totally normal feeling. it will pass tho. when you feel it, just squeeze your little one tight. because although that physical bond is gone, you're still connected to your munchkin in a way no one else will ever be. and that's a bond that can NEVER be broken!!
it's part of postpartum. it's totally normal. you were physically connected to your little one and now that that connection is gone, seeing others preggo can bring up that strange emotion. You miss having your little one inside, at least subconsciously lol
It's ok. I am going trough the same thing. Most of my friends are pregnant right now. I already have one of each kid! My husband and says I'm crazy for wanting a third.