Having a hard time with my older son who will be 3 next month. He's very strong willed, independent, stubborn, and sometimes angry. I also have a 7 week old boy but this has been going on before he arrived and before I got pregnant. He also has a bit of a speech delay and I can only understand about 80% of what he says. My husband understands less and others outside our home understand only 50%. Please share some tips to help. My husband and I are having a very hard time and are just resorting to anger and negative disciple which is not working.