Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
What would you do? I feel so stupidly selfish if I choose to be induced because I want my boy to come when he is ready, but I am also feeling selfish stressing him out because everything going on and how stressed I am. So do I continue to stress him out or do I get induced and deal with this and let him be? Or will he be okay? I've been up all night contracting on and off but could it be from my nerves?
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
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I think a therapist would be great for both of you. he needs to regain that trust back because it is his fault he lost it but you also have to give him the opportunity if you want to make it work. can't use it against him
Dixie Carter·
Мама сына (1 год)
@beebaby, He won't go to therapy with me. He says everything that has happened in the past 8 months is my fault and I'll never change. He says he's not doing anything but recently I found a nude picture of a female in his phone. Everytime I try to trust him again, this shit happens. Im trying to stay positive but my heart is broken into pieces.
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Well what do you want to do. Don't wait on him to make decisions in your life. you deserve to be happy and not being able to trust him isn't fair
Dixie Carter·
Мама сына (1 год)
@beebaby, not being able to trust him isn't fair to him? I mean I am going to get help for myself but we aren't even speaking really about anything except the kid. I just feel stupid because I took him back twice when he messed up, but he can't support me through my tough time. I'm so confused
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no. not being able to trust him isn't fair to you and that isn't your fault
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That always happens that way. it can't be 50/50. it's gotta be 100/100. if he isn't willing to go to therapy to save your relationship them why are you going alone to save it. that shows you he doesn't care. he should be willing to do whatever to make things right for your family. shouldn't be a one way street
Dixie Carter·
Мама сына (1 год)
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Dixie Carter·
Мама сына (1 год)
@beebaby, I totally agree. When I came to him about me thinking I was depressed about a month ago, he told me that he would try to get through it with me, but if he couldn't I couldn't get mad if he decides to go his separate way. We have been together for 4 years, and ever since I became pregnant, it's been hell. I want to make it work because he is my whole world, but he says he is completely done with my shit. I see what you are saying about the 100/100. I just feel so lost and heartbroken
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I understand and it's not easy but he isn't willing to stand by you during your tuff time he can kick rocks. that is what family is about. if the tables were turned you would be right there. that's sad
Dixie Carter·
Мама сына (1 год)
@beebaby, thank you. I have some thinking to do.
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Yes and good luck. HOPE it works out for ya in the end
Heather Miller·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I understand honey I've been there and I'm here to talk if u need to
Dixie Carter·
Мама сына (1 год)
@millermommie, thank you so much girl!
Heather Miller·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
if he can't be there for you through the rough times he sure AF don't deserve to be there for the good times honey!!