Ladies I need opinions.. so I have a very very loving husband, I really do. He's a total sweetheart. But today he said something.. . so this morning he gets home from work and as we are talking in the kitchen he tells me.. honey I think you've gained some weight this past few days, your face looks a little rounder than normal 😳.. I laughed and brushed it off but now I'm sitting here thinking and feeling a little sad. I guess I should appreciate his honesty but should I be a little mad at him? 💭💭
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@sthompson2401, that I look fatter! But I mean what's the point of even telling me? Was that his way of telling me to work out or something :/
I mean of course say that it hurt your feelings but I honestly don't think that was his intentions.
i would ask him what he was thinking when he told you that.
@srabe86, I mean sure I appreciate the honesty but I'm home all day taking care of our son I eat what and when I can. It does affect us really bad
Be mad, out at least tell him it hurt your feelings. My husband told me something along those lines after I had our second child and I cried in private and talk to him about it and he apologized. I don't think they really understand how things like that can effect us.
But why would he say it 😩 he's never told me that. He usually tells me I look great and beautiful so that caught me off guard :/
Don't be mad. I really don't think he was saying that to hurt you. Maybe he just see a change in you.
idk that's why i would ask him and tell him it honestly hurt your feelings and confused you