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jknr
jknr
jknr
Going through a lot right now!
My partner told me he wanted me to have his baby and he's telling me I need to get an abortion:'(
I want this baby but a the same time im scared because I'm not ready and I don't even have a job. I'm only a sophomore in highschool and he's a freshmen in college. I can already tell the type of relationship he wants with me if i have it is "don't call me unless it has to do with our child." Honestly I'm all alone going through these harmonic emotional roller coaster and i need his support. I had it made up in my mind that I was going to keep it then I reconsidered it and now I'm back to square one. I never thought I'd be going through this.
28.12.2016
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mandaaleexo
mandaaleexo
@jknr, I was just checking up on you and just saw this post! Sorry to hear things aren't going as you planned. I'm not here to tell you whether you should keep it or not. That's completely your choice and your choice only. Don't let anyone force you into an abortion. I've been in that situation before - it isn't pretty! If you believe you can care and love this support/supply for this child that is what matters! Just please remember to think through both of these options slowly and carefully. Either decision you make can and will be literally life changing. Best of luck to you and I'm here if you need to talk! Xx
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patti28
patti28
Can't offer much advice but please think about yourself and that baby when you make your decision. He doesn't matter in this equation if you ask me. Also, I encourage you to discuss with your parents as well.
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lakota-winyan
lakota-winyan
you have to do what's best for you. I'm sure you will make the right decision for yourself. sorry your in this situation. and I agree he should have not been in a relationship with you anyways. thoughts and prayers for you.
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brownsugarluv
brownsugarluv
My heart goes out to you. I was 17 when I had my first. His dad was 24 and obviously a loser to even be with an underage girl. As a mom now I cringe at thinking about my girls getting older. It's not ok no matter what circumstances.
Becoming a mother is a lot of work. Especially a single mother. If you plan to abort I would make the decision asap. Talk with your parents. I know it's scary. It no matter what decision you make you will need support hun! I always say think of the baby.. What kind of life will he/she have? What about adoption, is it an option?
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jace16landon21mommy
jace16landon21mommy
Yes as @anmlopez said, you're at least 4 weeks along. That's a tough one. I wouldn't stay with him if he's going to act like that. He sounds incredibly immature and not ready at all. You have to do what's best for you and your future. Is having a baby so young (not that I'm bashing young mothers) something you can see yourself being able to work with? I see you want to be an OB. Are those goals still achieve able to you?
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You usually find out you're pregnant at 3-4 weeks. Are you sure you aren't further along? It goes by your last period so technically you're considered pregnant before you even conceive if you test positive.. it's weird I know lol. You have to go with your gut, have you gone to a doctor yet to discuss all your options? You could always do adoption! I can't imagine being in such a hard situation, best wishes love 💕
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mommyof5littlebears
mommyof5littlebears
how old is he and how old are you
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camsmomma
camsmomma
You really will have to do what's best for you like @beebaby said. You should have a real conversation with your parents. If you do need someone to talk to, I'm available.
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jknr
jknr
@paisleysmom9 no but all of my sisters had a baby already so idk if she will be surprised or not
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jknr
jknr
I'll be three weeks on Friday @momtobetobabyc
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mommyof5littlebears
mommyof5littlebears
Do your parents know? it's stressful.
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camsmomma
camsmomma
I'm so sorry to hear that! It is a lot to take in and to consider. How far long are you?
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