I came home the other night to girls, weed, drug dealerz, and a gang member all in the apartment that I pay for partying with my now ex boyfriend and unfortunately father of my son. I am now back at my parents house with my son and his father has not had contact with us nor tried to make contact for 4 days. I'm not shocked he's on drugs but it breaks my heart that while I take 24/7 care of our son he parties and hooks up with other girls. I fell out of love with him approx. 3-4 months ago and I think that's when it at started but either way, I was trying to make it work and now I'm a strong independent single mother. I get to come home to my baby and wake up to his smile and kisses every day while his dad slowly kills himself. I think I have the better end of the stick.
@tinkfulmom, im so glad i am able to give u just that little bit of extra reassurance
@wethreepeas, thank you so much! I can go to bed with ease knowing that not just someone from my family thinks I did the right thing
@tinkfulmom, of course because u r only human. but he's become dangerous and you can only help him for so long and if he isn't willing to help himself it leaves u no choice but to do what is best for the safety of u and ur son. you DID make the right choice. and your son will thank u for that one day.
@wethreepeas, thank you so much! it's been so hard to not look at the past and remember who he use to be, but it's also been easy to move on because it's what my son truly deserves so thank you that reassured me
good for you mamas for getting urself and ur baby out of that situation because it got uglier and you 2 were harmed. u r the greatest gift that u could give ur son and hes so lucky that he has u
@tinkfulmom, your welcome. you are a smart mama who made the right choice for you and your baby. the best decision that could be made. even though it wasn't the easiest in a way.