so rant..was so excited to tell my sister I was pregnant, and I didn't exactly get the reaction I was hoping for. Instead I got a lecture how she doesn't feel that I'm ready financially to have a baby that she was hoping to have her 2nd before I had my first and she is upset I didn't wait longer and she is jealous blah blah blah. Mind you my nephew is 5. she is seriously mad at me and every time I have a question about my pregnancy or want to spend time with her she blows me off. like WTF
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I'm going through same thing with my brother. it's actually becoming motivating
One of my sisters told me she can't and won't support me and my other one made the whole conversation about her. Sucks to have such unsupportive family members but at the end of the day you can't let it get to you! Just focus on your blessing.
she's jealous, but hopefully she turns around.. we may never be financially stable for a baby but if we wait forever then it will be too late
exactly as long as you and him are happy the rest will fall into place. I've learned in the beginning of my pregnancy not to expect anything from anyone regardless if its favors or happiness. u got this
You guys are not in competition !! And it doesn't matter if she makes more than you do that doesn't mean you can't support your child and household !! @babylima2017 couldn't have said it any better !!
@babylima2017, yeah I'm just really bummed I'm trying not to let it get to me that much..I'm excited about having a baby and so is my SO he says that's all that matters I'm trying to think that way
sad to say we dnt always get the reaction we hope to have from those we care about most. but every child is a blessing regarding how ready anyone else thinks you are. dont pay mind to it. dont stress. enjoy every moment and be happy for yourself because if we look for others to be happy for us we will wait forever
@jeanetta25, it really is though and it's upsetting cause my sister and I are usually really close...but like I'm 25 my sister is 30...I'm married with my own house just like she is...yeah she makes more than me but I can still pay all my bills and be comfortable in life
That sucks but don't let that bother you enjoy your pregnancy I'm sure she'll come around as time goes by. But in the mean time if she doesn't wanna anything to do with it then just let her be . I think that's stupid to act that way but hey ..
I know how this feels... I've had nothing but problems with my brother and his girlfriend since I got pregnant. It's at the point right now where we dont talk at all, it's very sad but some people are jealous and miserable and can't be happy and accepting of others.