my so was excited when we found out he was the excited one i was the scared one even through the whole pregnancy he was happy and excited now that she is here i catch him rubbing my stomach like he would when i had a belly i find its cute that he misses the belly

This is our first baby together and neither of us has children from previous relationships. It really gets to me because his reasons for not being excited are money, not being able to have sex for a while, sleeping and not having the time to play his video games (mind you he's 31 years old). I'm just extremely aggravated and annoyed. All I want to do is get a divorce and go as far away from him as possible and raise this baby by myself and never see him again. But I also know that it wouldn't be fair to my baby not to meet her father.

@damire0306, i hope he changes his tune once the babys born. he probably just wasnt ready for another one. sum men dont get happy until they actually hold them. so i hope thats his case. this is my husbands first hes raising my girls. so all he wanted was a boy. we are having him and hes very happy. i will get my tubes tied.

That's awesome! My husband isn't too thrilled. This is our first baby but he's not really into it. He hasn't gone to an appointment with me in months and hasn't helped me with anything for the nursery and complains about having to buy gear for the baby (car seat, etc) doesn't even want to feel when the baby kicks. I'm honestly at a crossroads because all I wanna do is run away as far as I can.

of course. they should be

Yes. we wanted another. really happy

mine is super excited and happy 😊