If your body isn't ready, nothing you can do can truly help dilate you. Plus, early dilation isn't an indicator of going into labor soon. I know people who have been at 1 or 2cm for weeks and nothing happened.
@kelsi_mom, it's really pretty early for u still. I have been doing evening primrose oil and raspberry leaf tea. I have been completely effaced for almost 2 weeks and my cervix is still only one