I want to leave but found out I'm 4 months plus I had ankle surgery in April and I'm not fully healed I'm having to use my crutches,again and it was very hard for me life with no one at all doing my 1st surgery as a adult alone I can't imagine delivery alone and raising him alone handicapped I had hard time in wheelchair having to pull myself since not electric and hoping around on crutches I can't do with this belly so I try to lean on them and walk so I don't fall but I can't do that holding a baby can hardly hold my purse if it wasn't crossbody. so why babies don't save relationships it is a blessing if the partner agrees to help since I really need it.