so ladies I have some news. me and my fiancee are done. we broke up. I know I shouldn't have but god gave me thus feeling to look at his fb messenger. I'm glad I did. around June he left to oregon to find job. when I hadn't heard from him in days I called the local hospital up there and the police. and then his supposed jobs. so he lied about working. then on messenger I found out I was no longer his girl or fiancee or anything but I was his baby mama. and then he said to his friends I was stalking him so he changed his number. then accused me of cheating which I haven't done since I'm busy with kids. then cherry ontop of it all ... he flew 2 girls to oregon. not related at all. he spent almost 500 dollars on them and could only send 25 dollars in the past 3 months. so I broke up with him. and filed for child support which he also told his friends way before this. I'm not gonna make him a liar.i feel ok about it. Yeah it hurts. 5 years together and it ends like that. but I mainly feel for our daughter cuz she won't have her dad around and my son had him around for 3 years of his life. but I have family to help me. I just need positive vibes right now.
thank you @allyk.xmommy and @mommaofmrkj2014 I always told him I will not keep him from kids. and I intend to keep that promise. now if he doesn't want to be around them that's on him. I also told him that if I were to date another guy Like for a long time and it was serious I will not tell my kids to call the bf daddy. if they choose to its up to them. I will not force them. but they will always know who their father is
don't take the kids relationship away from their dad don't be that baby momma . if he's not abusive and a good dad let them be
thank you.@mommaofmrkj2014,