we've been going through alot, lack of sex, lack of communication, no cuddling just "there"if u kno what I mean... and its been going on for 4 years and I just couldnt deal with this no longer!!!! like he has a attitude now an doesnt wanna talk he jus completely shut me out!!! so I said that he could be there for the birth of his son Monday and he can sleep in the living room until further notice