An extra duffle bag! The hospital will give you lots of goodies and it's easy to just put it all in one bag. And adult diapers. I liked those a lot better than the hospital undies cause those mesh undies felt so loose lol

yes most of that stuff you dont need just pack like your staying the night at a friends ... pjs and something comfy to wear home..... my bag was tshirts and leggings socks and my bathroom stuff

you don't need most of that actually.
you can use a plain pillow to nurse with, you don't need prenatal vitamins...the hospital is going to provide you with numbing spray, breast pads,pads diapers, baby wipes, bottles,Vaseline, receiving blanket....you don't need to clip your newborns nails or a changing pad...or nursing cover (unless you're having a lot of people visit and just want to cover up) and the baby book can wait..
don't think too too much on it and don't stress yourself on it either. Pinterest has a lot of lists and also pins that tell you what not to pack. realistically you'll probably only shower once while you're there so travel sizes should be just fine.

I'm super lost, lol...

Helped me!@mrsace 😂 I've been trying to find a list that didn't have pointless stuff on it