Since having a baby my relationship with my SO and I has only gotten worse 😕
My fiancée went through the same thing he use to tell me oh I didn't want him you did and we'd be fighting back and forth I went to all my appointment alone stood up in tears with my son it took until I had my second that he got his shit together and apologized and being working on being a better father now we're on our third and he takes care of my two toddlers with no need for me to help I know it's hard but if you been together this long maybe he just needs someone else to tell him about himself but trust me I get it I was so done with him at that moment I told him I didn't want anything to do with him I'd have my second baby by my self and it was literally hell then once he was born something changed
He just doesn't get it. Theres always tension between us now. He doesn't help but claims he does more than me which is a joke. He hasn't even once ever gotten up with him at night. Just yesterday he told me he didn't love our son. If he doesn't love him then I don't know how he could love me. I don't see this lasting much longer. I just wish I'd seen it 4 years ago. @desirae21
Same happen to me when I had my first sometimes men need more time to adjust I know it doesn't seem fair but it's instant for us mommys
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.

My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
I also prayed a lot that God help open his eyes and for him to help work on what I couldn't cause I would talk until I was blue in the face nothing I could cry nothing now it's like a completely different man