I also prayed a lot that God help open his eyes and for him to help work on what I couldn't cause I would talk until I was blue in the face nothing I could cry nothing now it's like a completely different man

@jacesterlingsmommy,

My fiancée went through the same thing he use to tell me oh I didn't want him you did and we'd be fighting back and forth I went to all my appointment alone stood up in tears with my son it took until I had my second that he got his shit together and apologized and being working on being a better father now we're on our third and he takes care of my two toddlers with no need for me to help I know it's hard but if you been together this long maybe he just needs someone else to tell him about himself but trust me I get it I was so done with him at that moment I told him I didn't want anything to do with him I'd have my second baby by my self and it was literally hell then once he was born something changed

He just doesn't get it. Theres always tension between us now. He doesn't help but claims he does more than me which is a joke. He hasn't even once ever gotten up with him at night. Just yesterday he told me he didn't love our son. If he doesn't love him then I don't know how he could love me. I don't see this lasting much longer. I just wish I'd seen it 4 years ago. @desirae21

Same happen to me when I had my first sometimes men need more time to adjust I know it doesn't seem fair but it's instant for us mommys